Ok soooo I've recently been observing certain relationships [both on air and off] and I really find that a lot of men in relationships actually do not like, let alone respect their girlfriends.
1) At the TOP of this list is Matt Barnes and Gloria from Basketball Wives LA. More power to her for finally separating from the dude but did anyone else see the scene where she asks if for money and he agrees on the proviso that she gives him 'sex on tap' like some sort of common wench?? AND then like a fool, she SHOOK HIS HAND ON NATIONAL T.V. in acceptance. Really?? That my dears is a man who is just not that into her.
2) Next is Jim Jones and Chrissy from Love and Hip Hop. I honestly have no bloody clue how that woman is still doing it buuut there is no way that I am going to circumvent history and the traditions of our forefathers, go down on my knees and present a man with a ring only for him to respond with.."I'm with you"...and then LOSE my ring. Not blooming likely mate. He is just not that into her.
3) The next couple are people I actually know. I will call him Klaus and her Helga. Now a couple of years back, I was...romantically involved with Klaus. There was NO relationship but there was some..mild..necking and petting, meanwhile unbeknownst to me [at first] he was defo also seeing Helga. They are now in a 'committed relationship' but we have recently been in contact again and he invited me down to her surprise birthday party this weekend. Correct me if I am wrong but that social circle should consist of friends and family of the celebrant...I am not certain where you would place 'the woman who I once kinda cheated on you with' would actually fit in. Of course, I opted out of that invitation but you have to wonder if he respects her at all right?....
4) Couple no. 4 are two people who I know well. I shan't say too much on this one because after all this is the world wide web but all I know is that he is oft very...inappropriate..in the way he has related to me/referred to other women, slap bang in her presence. I am not one to judge but I can say with almost 100% certainty that he is just not that into her. He is into the TYPE of woman she is but she needs to watch out for his secretary, his postwoman...his cat...anything with a p*ssy.
That's all for now folks but honestly, if he treats you like he doesn't respect you, then he probably doesn't. I've been through it and now I simply opt out at any sign of rubbish.
They don't call me Miss Stand Offish for no reason.
Wow, I think you should change your name to Miss Blogalot! I humbly advise you to pace yourself, Miss, because at this rate you'll be all blogged out in a month! I've seen it happen, believe me!
ReplyDeleteNo disagreement from me on the substance here, although to be fair the boot is sometimes on the other arse. I've seen men marry absolute harridans and put up with being stamped on for years. On the other hand, maybe they actually enjoy it in a masochistic way, who are we to judge?
LOL- Hi GB- honestly thanks for the concern but now I feel duty bound to share a secret with you for your own peace of mind!!
ReplyDeleteI didn't write all those posts yesterday. They were all old posts that I decided to publish. This is actually the only one that was fresh material.
Don't you feel better now? We can all rest easy knowing that I will not burn out but rather will continue to write my wild opinions.
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Ah, that's reassuring. I also write posts in advance, but still space them out over time so I'm never lost for words. That's an old gorilla trick I thought I pass on, you being a promising new blogger and everything.
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